I have recently discovered a way at looking at life that is so very powerful. It takes lots of trust in life to develop, however it is such an amazing lens to look at life through.
I have done lots of personal growth work over the past few years and I learn so much from books, podcasts, other people and just thinking about concepts in my mind. It is natural thing as a human being to feel separate from others, to feel that we aren’t connected and to wonder why someone has more success than you do, or more resources than you do. That is a very natural feeling that creeps up for us many times. I think it is even more prevalent with social media because we can constantly see others there, see what they have and what they are doing and compare ourselves to them.
There is a new way I have begun to think about this. Although I do not have a science degree or a science background, I am fascinated by things like quantum physics that seems to defy the way that we experience the world. Because of this, I do believe that we are more interconnected than we can grasp at this moment. I also believe that there could be different universes or time loops that we just aren’t aware of that if we were, we would understand how connected we really are and how our actions and thoughts effect outcomes and other people.
The other day while I was pondering such possibilities, I thought of the phrase “She is me.” This means that when I see someone that has achieved something that I want to achieve or has something I want to have, that can be another version of me on a different timeline. In this way, I am bringing what she has into my field of possibility. That means that I can have those things too and I can be those things too if I so choose. It is all possible. It is all out there for us.
This way of looking at the world and looking at others is so exciting because you can truly see yourself in others and see what can happen for you in this lifetime or possibly the next.
Whenever I meet someone that has had success in way that I am striving for, I am confident in the fact that they are showing me that universe in which she is me and I am her. Perhaps I am showing her a possibility for herself as well. There are no losses and only gains in this way of thinking.
I would love to know what you are striving for and how you have seen what you’d like in others. What if she is you? What if you are her?
You can also look at a person who is struggling in a way you used to struggle in the same way. You can see that the situation will be temporary for them just as it was for you. If you know them you can reach out and provide support to them. The more we are creating win-win situations, the more we win and the more others win! I just love this way of thinking about the world.
It is actually fantastic that we are still searching for answers on how the world works because it means that the possibilities are really limitless as to how we can go along on our path.
With lots of love,